When School Becomes a Source of Stress
School takes up a huge amount of a child or teen's life and when it becomes a source of significant stress, anxiety, or dread, it affects everything. Academic pressure, social challenges, fear of failure, difficulty concentrating, or an overwhelming reluctance to attend can all signal that a child or teen needs support.
School avoidance and school-related anxiety have become increasingly common. For some children and teens, the thought of going to school triggers intense physical symptoms: stomachaches, headaches, panic. For others, the struggle is less visible: shutting down at homework time, avoiding participation, or feeling chronically overwhelmed by what is expected of them.
Therapy at Little Waves helps children and teens understand what is driving their school-related struggles, develop practical tools for managing stress and anxiety, and rebuild a more positive and manageable relationship with the school environment.
- School refusal and avoidance
- Test anxiety and performance fears
- Perfectionism and fear of failure
- Managing academic pressure and overwhelm
- Transitioning to a new school or grade
- Social anxiety in the school setting
- Concentration difficulties and staying on task
- Building a sustainable and healthier relationship with school
School-related anxiety and avoidance are not signs of laziness or weakness. They are signs that a child or teen is overwhelmed and with the right support, things can genuinely improve.
Approaches for School-Related Stress
Every child is different. Tap an approach below to see how it fits into the work, Lianne combines these to build a plan that fits the individual.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
Helps children and teens identify and challenge the anxious or avoidant thinking patterns that make school feel overwhelming: building more balanced responses and reducing avoidance.
Help your child get back on track at school
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FAQCommon Questions About School Issues
What kinds of school problems can therapy address?
Therapy can help with school avoidance, test anxiety, perfectionism, academic pressure, learning difficulties (not the same as LD assessment), difficulty with teachers, school transitions, and the emotional impact of academic struggles.
What is school avoidance and how is it treated?
School avoidance is persistent difficulty attending school due to anxiety or other emotional factors. Treatment typically involves identifying the underlying cause, a gradual return-to-school plan, and building the skills needed to cope with school-related stress.
Does therapy work with the school?
I don't provide direct therapy or consultation to schools. However, I can work with parents to help them understand their child's needs and develop strategies for advocating for appropriate supports and accommodations at school, with the child's consent when appropriate.
My teen is burned out. Is that something therapy can help?
Yes. Teen burnout, exhaustion from academic and social pressure, is increasingly common. Therapy helps teens understand their limits, reconnect with what matters to them, and build sustainable habits around school and wellbeing.